I use Family Tree Maker v 7.5 to store my data. When I first started collecting data they were one of the top ones on the market. I have not looked for several years to see what else is out there.
To automate the creation of the web pages I used JF Tools Gedail v 2.10. I have used a couple of others but have yet to find exactly what I am looking for. Gedail can be somewhat combersome but it easily strips out date information for those individuals that are still living.
email me: familytree -at- soapweed -dot- com